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Wednesday, June 2, 2010

5 Common Lies told by Women
Women are born natural liars. Make no mistake about it, no matter how you trust or adore her, all women lie in certain situations and your sweet angel is no exception.

Be it a white or black lie, big lie or just a small lie, whatever the case, certain lies occur much more often than others.

It’s however the duty of men to read and uncovered women dishonesty by first learning the lies all women will tell and how to handle them. After you understand the true meaning of each supposed lies that are coming out from her mouth, you will react accordingly so as to achieve a great communication.

The simplest of women are wonderful liars who can extricate themselves from the most difficult dilemmas with a skill bordering on genius.”

These are the 5 common lies told by women

1.“I’m not angry at you.“
This lie is one of the most commonly used in relationships. Typically, women who have been hurt by men in their lives, often inadvertently use this phrase as an emotional defense. Example, if a guy forgets his girlfriend’s birthday, calls her by his ex name or commits any of the other minor screw-up that most men do, women usually can’t just let it go. They usually dwell on it for certain times.

Instead of admitting that she’s actually quite hurt by his relatively minor offense, the woman will pretend that she doesn’t care at all. What she really means is that she does care, and very much but just doesn’t want to look too bitchy about it.

Lie Detector: This lie is extremely easy to pick up on because women barely bother to hide their irritation in this situation. As unfair as it may seem, they basically want men to read their minds and learn that, in this case, “No, I’m not angry” actually means “I’m pissing off and you better do some recovery on it.” Excessive eye rolling, mean tones and passive-aggressive behavior in general are dead giveaways.

How to handle it: Save yourself some time and headaches later on by calling her on her real feelings and discussing why she’s so angry.

2.“I don’t mind if you go to the clubs with your friends.”You’re in luck man. You have such an understanding girlfriend. Not quite, if this one sounds too good to be true. Virtually all women mind when their men go out to ogle other women at clubs without them. It’s only a question of how much they mind.

In general, women are extremely wary of their boyfriends being in highly sexually charged situations without them. Also, they hate to feel second best to a boys’ night out. In this case, she’s either telling one of the five lies all women tell to save face or to test you.

Lie Detector: This lie is usually a little bit more artfully concealed than the first because it’s a little bit more pathetic to own up to one’s insecurity. It’s best to just always assume that this statement is a lie.

How to handle it: You’re probably better off just not going. Ask yourself: Are few hours of entertainment worth weeks, even months, of bitchy comments?

3.“You are a great guy but I’m just not ready for a relationship right now.“Although at least it’s told with the best intentions, in order to soften rejection. It might be followed by an additional excuse such as: “I just came out of a bad relationship, and I don’t want to be hurt again,” or “I’m just too busy with my career right now to have a boyfriend.”

The truth is, if the woman is single and at all interested in you, she will certainly make the time to date you. Which women wouldn’t want a great man? It’s that simple.

Lie Detector: Does she seem uncomfortable, avoid eye contact, talk too much, and come up with numerous excuses?

How to handle it: Let it go. Don’t bother letting her know that you see through it. Take the easy way out by pretending you believe her for your own personal dignity, and just walk away.

4.“Let me pay the tab tonight; you always pay anyway.”Not true. Although this lie doesn’t apply to all women, most still do expect men to pay for things, especially if the man asked them out in the first place. They will secretly think that the guy is cheap if he wriggles out of the bill on a regular basis.

Men should always at least offer to pay for dinner if they have asked the woman out. If she protests vigorously, then relent and offer for the next treat; if she just protests casually, she’s only doing it out of politeness, pay for it.

Lie Detector: If she says: “Oh, I’ll handle this,” but doesn’t even make the motion of rooting around in her purse for her wallet, it means that she has no real intention of paying.

How to handle it: Always, go to the date fully prepared to pay for the whole evening. In later stages of the relationship, you can work out a fair way to determine who treats who when, but in the early, critical dating stages, don’t risk looking cheap.

5.“That was the most awesome!“This lie falls under the broad category of sex lies. Because girls have this tendency, they also tell guys whatever they think they want to hear (like they just had an orgasm), just to make them feel good about themselves.

Other sex untruths women often tell are the following: “I only orgasm with you”; “You are the best”; “Yes, I came”; or “I’ve only been with X number of guys before.” (They will decrease their actual number of sex partners because they’re worried you will think they’re promiscuous.)

Lie Detector: When it comes to sex, that most sensitive of topics, it’s safe to say that you should take most things she tells you with a grain of salt.

How to handle it: You shouldn’t be asking her to rate her sexual experiences. That’s just in poor taste. If she offers you one of the lies above on her own, however, laugh and change the subject, as if to say: “That’s flattering, but I don’t really take these things too seriously as long as we’re both happy with our sex life.”

Be a Human Lie Detector Machine Now that you know the five lies all women tell, be on the lookout for them, and react accordingly. Once she learns that you can’t be tricked, she’ll be more straightforward with you in the future.



+ icY @ 2:27 PM

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