my arms are sore! Been packing folders for the sec students since morning. Took my own sweet time since this is like a last minute request from my colleague this morning. always kena this kind of thing.
tml! everyone will be on leave, nearly everyone, so I must 'hold the fort'. The preferred words used here.
anyway i wanna blog about a story i had read somewhere. details would be slightly hazy but the gist is there.
This is the day I met Biscuit. It wouldn't be convenient to reveal his name here but this is the endearing name that I had used for him.
I went to a bookstore with the intention of looking for a fiction book, something to read to pass a lazy weekend afternoon.
And then I see him, in a casual white shirt, slightly rumpled, a bit smug around the chest, sleeves rolled, and blue jeans.
I was standing around the newspaper/magazines corner, and subtlely checked if he had a ring, and also whether he was reading a pervy magazine..haha.
We made friendly eye contact and began chatting. It was casual yet I felt enthralled to continue the conversation. And then, I found myself sitting in a cafe and chatted some more. He told me stories about his travels and also his experiences of life he faced in those places. I, on the other hand, gave some funny accounts that I could think of, igniting his burst of laughter which was warm and accomodating.
Then, he excused himself, quite abruptly.
+ icY @ 4:58 PM
I'll never be the sameee.
Can't stop hearing this in my head.
damn catchy lyric.
5 Common Lies told by Women
Today's weather is really cold! Rain and rain with lightning bolts!
level of motivation is low. stagnant really, for quite some time with alternating emotions.
+ icY @ 5:08 PM
Just funny pic i got from FB. Lol, and that stuff is not chocolates isn'it?
:S
And this reminds me of my cousin's blog! About her faci teaching 'sales mangement module'. The story goes where he first took out a banana and asked the class to sell that darn thing.Don't you think this is weird? I mean he could have chosen an apple or orange, at least a common fruit which won't cause turmoil in class. Anyway I can accept that. Cos it gets worse. He then asked the class what do they wan to sell. After seeing the fruit, of cos the class shouted, 'condoms!' And they were spot on. He really took out one, my god. Is he teaching sex ed? or maybe the school is initating some sex ed elements in their teaching materials. oh well. I shouldn't judge, maybe it is essential to use that as an example in class.
+ icY @ 3:15 PM
suddenly feel like blogging, with no really strong reasons to do so. as you can see, I normally blogged when there's unpleasant stuff.
however, I do have some nagging stuff at the back of my mind which are not convenient to be blogged out in public. what can I do to get this irritant/eye sore/SOB out of my mind/life?
It’s something I have to deal with. Fast.
Things that happened since I lat blogged(surprisingly it’s only been slightly more than a week): Thought of buying a lappie but decided to do it later this year. IF I got the financial means, I mean I wanna go for overseas trips, and buy a couple of furniture and take up some lessons.
+ icY @ 5:17 PM
this week passes quite fast. an event(quite major) ended and went quite well. The attendance was the highest for the time being compared to other schools. :D Saw the embarrassing video too, I nearly tripped over while going to the stage to help lisa, asking ss to reduce her presentation time.
Not much food was wasted too. Thanks to someone who took..well ten over boxes home.
-.-
The next day after the event, I am on course for MS Word.
The class is very small, less than 15. But alas I loved coming in late and going off early. It is very nice to sleep in during lessons too cos the room is so cold and the lecturer(indian) has a voice that can lure me to sleep.
Of course, one can't have much of a good thing and I am bombarded by work by my boss consistently. which kinda prevent me to avtually pay attention to class. Sux, as my test will be tomorrow.
yesterday I went to xl's house, you know to catch up and stuff. I brought puipui over:) Nearly cancelled the whole session cos I was pretty drained out from work and lying on the bed was such bliss but the thought of she starting work on Mon means we might not be able to meet up often and do those fun house thingy, made me drag my lazy bum and walk to her house. Inital plan was she coming to my house but I have such an itchy mouth(hands!) and sms the change of venue.
The main thing was we talked about some of my stupid, or rather guilable friends. conclusion: should i help, how much can i really help, are they worth helping?
most people are stubborn mules who conceived a penchant for blind spots of mistakes which are always right in front of them.
well, if i can really help, maybe I should..
my goodness. can the 'students' in the class stop asking stupid and irrevelant qns?? They are wasting precious time and I wan to leave early one! At least, ask qns that will come up in exams!
+ icY @ 1:54 PM
Women are born natural liars. Make no mistake about it, no matter how you trust or adore her, all women lie in certain situations and your sweet angel is no exception.
Be it a white or black lie, big lie or just a small lie, whatever the case, certain lies occur much more often than others.
It’s however the duty of men to read and uncovered women dishonesty by first learning the lies all women will tell and how to handle them. After you understand the true meaning of each supposed lies that are coming out from her mouth, you will react accordingly so as to achieve a great communication.
The simplest of women are wonderful liars who can extricate themselves from the most difficult dilemmas with a skill bordering on genius.”
These are the 5 common lies told by women
1.“I’m not angry at you.“
This lie is one of the most commonly used in relationships. Typically, women who have been hurt by men in their lives, often inadvertently use this phrase as an emotional defense. Example, if a guy forgets his girlfriend’s birthday, calls her by his ex name or commits any of the other minor screw-up that most men do, women usually can’t just let it go. They usually dwell on it for certain times.
Instead of admitting that she’s actually quite hurt by his relatively minor offense, the woman will pretend that she doesn’t care at all. What she really means is that she does care, and very much but just doesn’t want to look too bitchy about it.
Lie Detector: This lie is extremely easy to pick up on because women barely bother to hide their irritation in this situation. As unfair as it may seem, they basically want men to read their minds and learn that, in this case, “No, I’m not angry” actually means “I’m pissing off and you better do some recovery on it.” Excessive eye rolling, mean tones and passive-aggressive behavior in general are dead giveaways.
How to handle it: Save yourself some time and headaches later on by calling her on her real feelings and discussing why she’s so angry.
2.“I don’t mind if you go to the clubs with your friends.”You’re in luck man. You have such an understanding girlfriend. Not quite, if this one sounds too good to be true. Virtually all women mind when their men go out to ogle other women at clubs without them. It’s only a question of how much they mind.
In general, women are extremely wary of their boyfriends being in highly sexually charged situations without them. Also, they hate to feel second best to a boys’ night out. In this case, she’s either telling one of the five lies all women tell to save face or to test you.
Lie Detector: This lie is usually a little bit more artfully concealed than the first because it’s a little bit more pathetic to own up to one’s insecurity. It’s best to just always assume that this statement is a lie.
How to handle it: You’re probably better off just not going. Ask yourself: Are few hours of entertainment worth weeks, even months, of bitchy comments?
3.“You are a great guy but I’m just not ready for a relationship right now.“Although at least it’s told with the best intentions, in order to soften rejection. It might be followed by an additional excuse such as: “I just came out of a bad relationship, and I don’t want to be hurt again,” or “I’m just too busy with my career right now to have a boyfriend.”
The truth is, if the woman is single and at all interested in you, she will certainly make the time to date you. Which women wouldn’t want a great man? It’s that simple.
Lie Detector: Does she seem uncomfortable, avoid eye contact, talk too much, and come up with numerous excuses?
How to handle it: Let it go. Don’t bother letting her know that you see through it. Take the easy way out by pretending you believe her for your own personal dignity, and just walk away.
4.“Let me pay the tab tonight; you always pay anyway.”Not true. Although this lie doesn’t apply to all women, most still do expect men to pay for things, especially if the man asked them out in the first place. They will secretly think that the guy is cheap if he wriggles out of the bill on a regular basis.
Men should always at least offer to pay for dinner if they have asked the woman out. If she protests vigorously, then relent and offer for the next treat; if she just protests casually, she’s only doing it out of politeness, pay for it.
Lie Detector: If she says: “Oh, I’ll handle this,” but doesn’t even make the motion of rooting around in her purse for her wallet, it means that she has no real intention of paying.
How to handle it: Always, go to the date fully prepared to pay for the whole evening. In later stages of the relationship, you can work out a fair way to determine who treats who when, but in the early, critical dating stages, don’t risk looking cheap.
5.“That was the most awesome!“This lie falls under the broad category of sex lies. Because girls have this tendency, they also tell guys whatever they think they want to hear (like they just had an orgasm), just to make them feel good about themselves.
Other sex untruths women often tell are the following: “I only orgasm with you”; “You are the best”; “Yes, I came”; or “I’ve only been with X number of guys before.” (They will decrease their actual number of sex partners because they’re worried you will think they’re promiscuous.)
Lie Detector: When it comes to sex, that most sensitive of topics, it’s safe to say that you should take most things she tells you with a grain of salt.
How to handle it: You shouldn’t be asking her to rate her sexual experiences. That’s just in poor taste. If she offers you one of the lies above on her own, however, laugh and change the subject, as if to say: “That’s flattering, but I don’t really take these things too seriously as long as we’re both happy with our sex life.”
Be a Human Lie Detector Machine
Now that you know the five lies all women tell, be on the lookout for them, and react accordingly. Once she learns that you can’t be tricked, she’ll be more straightforward with you in the future.
+ icY @ 2:27 PM